Greetings

  • Handshake
  • Mālō e lelei

Etiquette

  • Sunday is a day of rest when most shops and leisure facilities are closed, so plan tourism accordingly
  • Clothing that covers shoulders and knees is considered proper in public places
  • It is customary to remove shoes when entering traditional houses or churches
  • Pointing feet at or touching photos of the king or royal family is considered disrespectful
  • When greeting elders, it is polite to bow slightly while saying "Mālō"
  • Meals begin after an elder offers prayer
  • Using both hands when giving gifts is polite
  • Showing simple greetings and thanks in Tongan makes you more welcome
  • After sunset on beaches, avoid topless or excessive exposure
  • Loud arguments or shouting in public places are taboo
  • Walking on tapa cloth with shoes is strictly forbidden
  • Refrain from music or noise during church bell times
  • Wearing a black mat (ta'ovala) is recommended at royal events and official ceremonies