Manners in Tonga
Learn about cultural etiquette and manners of this country
Greetings
- Handshake
- Mālō e lelei
Etiquette
- Sunday is a day of rest when most shops and leisure facilities are closed, so plan tourism accordingly
- Clothing that covers shoulders and knees is considered proper in public places
- It is customary to remove shoes when entering traditional houses or churches
- Pointing feet at or touching photos of the king or royal family is considered disrespectful
- When greeting elders, it is polite to bow slightly while saying "Mālō"
- Meals begin after an elder offers prayer
- Using both hands when giving gifts is polite
- Showing simple greetings and thanks in Tongan makes you more welcome
- After sunset on beaches, avoid topless or excessive exposure
- Loud arguments or shouting in public places are taboo
- Walking on tapa cloth with shoes is strictly forbidden
- Refrain from music or noise during church bell times
- Wearing a black mat (ta'ovala) is recommended at royal events and official ceremonies